Self-hate as "preferences".

“No other ethnic group within the black race is as plagued with so much self-hate as the African Americans. 

We don’t want to admit it but deep inside, we know it’s true. Yet, we wanna cover up this self-hate by labeling them as ‘preferences’. 

How are we going to fix these problems if we are not even ready to admit that they exist?” – blackpeopleconfessions.