Taking Responsibility for Our Actions.

Why is it so difficult for us to accept responsibility for our actions? We all like to feel important and have others have a high opinion of us. Some, more than others, develop an over-inflated view of themselves.  

These tendencies act to wrap us in what many call "denial", which creates a false perception of self and the inability to accept the truth about us. It then becomes painful to accept that mistakes are possible and when we make them, the first reaction is to point a finger at someone else. We refuse to think objectively and accept any involvement for our actions. Taking responsibility can be a very painful thing to do. 

The inability to accept responsibility for our actions and behaviors is a result of insecurity. By taking responsibility, some feels they are admitting to being weak, powerless, or an opportunity to lose the respect of others. It may cause one to feel he/she will lose a sense of value and importance. 

On the contrary, taking responsibility earns you respect. We can't be perfect all the time, we all make mistakes. When we accept responsibility we are accepting the blame for our actions and also accepting the responsibility for making improvements in our lives. 

Accepting responsibility is a measure of one's self-worth, a level of security, and the true sign of strength and courage. Having this ability can empower you to grow in ways that will bring you great rewards and accomplishments in your life. 

Who would you rather have great respect for: A person who takes responsibility for his/her actions, owns up to it and promises to do better in the future? Or someone who perpetually denies any involvement in situations when it's obvious he/she may be responsible? Accepting responsibility is a sign of personal growth and maturity. It is definitely not a sign of weakness. - Audrey Marlene.