Tuesday, February 10, 2015

My Husband Doesn’t Know I’m Really a Man.

As usual, I was listening to the Steve Harvey Radio Show this morning when it came to the segment of “Strawberry Letter” which often sounds incredible but absolutely true. The letter read this way:

“Steve I have been married for 2 years and my husband is ready to start a family. My problem is…I was born a man. I had a sex operation before I met my husband…so, he doesn’t know. I’m afraid to lose him if I tell him. Steve what do I do?”

In his response, Steve Harvey admitted that he knew nothing about sex change. He however advised the wo(man) to simply find a way to make the husband divorce her. As far as Steve was concern, if the wo(man) should dare tell the husband the truth, she would have to become a man all over again in view of what a typical man would do upon hearing such an ugly, disgusting truth.

My personal reaction as I listened to this letter was that of “what else is new?” In this society, it's quite normal for a man to meet a woman, both fall in love with each other and before anyone can say “lovey-dovey”, the two are standing before a Justice of the Peace, mumbling "I do”. In the United States, most couples don’t bother to meet each other’s families. Yet, it’s considered rude for one partner to ask about the other party’s age. Asking for her/his birth certificate or some childhood photographs is off limits. In fact, it’s worse when one partner seems too inquisitive about the other person’s background. And that’s why the institution of marriage is being subjected to a lot of abuses every second in God’s own country.

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In the above picture, adopted from a BBC Documentary titled "Sex Change Soldier", Ian Hamilton is a Captain of the Parachute Regiment and one of the most highly decorated officers ... in the British Army. He has served in Northern Ireland, Bosnia, Afghanistan and Iraq. But in 2007 Ian became the first officer and the first paratrooper in the history of the Armed Forces to undergo a sex-change operation.

5 comments:

June McCain said...

Jesus...this is CRAZY!!!!

Biodun Bakare said...

Are you serious? How could anyone meet another person, irrespective of gender and rush into marrying the person without really getting to know him or her? What's going on in that their America?

Stephen Broakway said...

What else did you expect from those who have decided to tamper with mother nature? Hey this is not a matter of one getting moralistic here. Those who think they can always do whatever the heck they want with their bodies should be prepared for whatever heartache comes with their crazy lifestyles. This dude here (in this story) does not have my pity.

Seye Ogunlewe said...

What the F? First the story about the sex-change guy and then the picture of the british army guy along with his new appearance. What's wrong with all those people in the western world? And the next thing they will be saying is that they are civilized. They are just a bunch of animals!

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