Showing posts with label Inspiration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Inspiration. Show all posts

Friday, September 4, 2020

Reading is the Source of a Powerful Mind.


These days, we spend so much time reading WhatsApp messages that we often forget to attend to more substantive things. True, some of the WhatsApp groups are edifying, promoting better understanding amongst people and expanding the frontiers of knowledge. But such groups are the exception. Many of these groups simply peddle low grade information, and the only beneficiaries are the telecoms companies who remain quite happy with the amount of data we consume.

If those of us who are adults are finding it difficult to be focused in what we consume, you can imagine the problem the younger ones are facing. Some of us can rightly claim that we were weaned on James Hadley Chase, Mills and Boon, Africa Writers series, etc. Yet we struggle to focus on what we read. Many in my generation will find it difficult to tell you the last book they read. All they depend on now are Whatsapp messages.

Then we now shamelessly blame our children that they don’t read. Why should they read? What example have we set for them? The culture of only reading to pass exams leaves us a barely functional society. It only enables us breed people who can barely think. And they are the ones who cede their thinking to their pastors, imams and politicians. And trust these categories of people; they take full advantage of this and turn their followers to zombies.

Which is why today, many people find it difficult to address issues that ordinarily should not be a problem for them. Little matters that a rudimentary understanding of psychology would help resolve are parceled to prophets and shamans to deal with.

As such logic takes a flight and all they see are enemies. Sure, there are enemies and people who don’t mean well for us. But we must not allow the fear of such people paralyze us and fail to apply ourselves.

Reading can make us better people.

-          Excerpts from What are you reading?, an article by Fred Ohwahwa.

Tuesday, March 24, 2020

Happy Birthday to my "Rock of Gibraltar”.

Today, as always, I'm celebrating a rare breed among women. My greatest inspiration and the “Rock of Gibraltar” behind all that I’m proud of today.
I'm forever thankful and blessed for the grace to have her in my life.
Titilola, iyawo mi atata, Happy birthday!
By the grace of God, you will have many happy returns of this day with all the good things that you desire in your life.
And, of course, you know that in the deepest recesses of my heart lays the love I have for you.

Sunday, June 9, 2019

What's the Matter with the World.

What´s the matter with the world,
has the world gone mad?
But there’s nothing wrong with the world…
it’s just us, the people that are in it.

You can depend on the sun to arise every day
while the moon follows suit in the evening
with one not disturbing the other…
But you can´t even rely on things people say.

Rain falls from the sky to nourish the earth
which, in turn, grows foods to enrich life.
Everything is in harmony with Mother nature
except you and me and our inconsistencies.
We are rarely in consonance with each other
due to bad blood, negativity and backstabbing. 

Therefore,
I want to know…
what’s really the matter with the world,
has the world gone mad?

(Adapted from Lou Rawls’ classic song, “What’s the Matter with the World?”)

Wednesday, September 30, 2015

Why Settle for a Mediocre Existence?


“I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others.
As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to
the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.” – As disclosed by a dying patient to Bronnie Ware (the palliative care nurse who wrote The Top Five Regrets of the Dying).






Saturday, September 5, 2015

A Lesson From Mother Teresa on Agape Love.

Mother Theresa and Queen Elizabeth II in 1985.


“It is not enough for us to say: I love God, but I do not love my neighbor. St. John says you are a liar if you say you love God and you don’t love your neighbor. How can you love God whom you do not see, if you do not love your neighbor whom you see, whom you touch, with whom you live? And so this is very important for us to realize that love, to be true, has to hurt. It hurt Jesus to love us, it hurt him. And to make sure we remember his great love he made himself the bread of life to satisfy our hunger for his love.

I had the most extraordinary experience with a Hindu family who had eight children. A gentleman came to our house and said: Mother Teresa, there is a family with eight children—they had not eaten for so long—do something. So I took some rice and I went there immediately. And I saw the children, their eyes shining with hunger. I don’t know if you have ever seen hunger. But I have seen it very often. And [the mother] took the rice, she divided the rice, and she went out. When she came back I asked her—where did you go, what did you do? And she gave me a very simple answer: They are hungry also. What struck me most was that she knew—and who are they? A Muslim family—and she knew. I didn’t bring more rice that evening because I wanted them to enjoy the joy of sharing. But there were those children, radiating joy, sharing the joy with their mother because she had the love to give. And you see this is where love begins, at home.”

Thursday, July 30, 2015

The Impact of Attitude on Life.

“The longer I love, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, gift or skill. It will make or break a company...a church....a home. The remarkable thing is, we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past...we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you...we are in charge of our attitudes.” Charles R. Swindoll.


Sunday, July 19, 2015

The benefits of Doing Good.




 “Lets’ not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time, we will reap a harvest of blessings if we don’t give up.” – Galatians 6:9.