Back in the day, a woman would take extra precautions to keep a man guessing about her body. It was common for a man to keep dreaming excitedly of the day when he would finally have the privilege to see that body.
These days however, it’s a different “ballgame”. Now, a typical woman will go to any length to expose the most intimate parts of her body, leaving nothing to imagination. From a very first date, she will provide a man with an eyeful of erotic sights to last him a lifetime. On a platter of gold, the man’s eyes are fed with a constant flash of her half-exposed breasts (cleavage) and the occasional exposure of her underpants (sex appeal). Unlike the past therefore, most men don’t have to “salivate” or have their imagination running riot anymore. Now, the only obstacle standing between a man and sex after one or two dates is just the distance between the location of the date and the nearest bedroom. Yet, it’s amazing, if not baffling to hear a lot of women lament over “the shortage of good men” and why marriage eludes them. Don’t they ever reason within themselves to realize that when it comes to marriage, every man is conservative in nature?
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Okay, listen. Men are conservative only when they think of marriage. How about them being so damn conservative also when they are pressurizing a woman to show off her boobs, expose her thongs and give up her cookie? Men are full of bullshit, that's what!
The first thought that occurred to me after reading this piece was to curse all the men out. But I changed my mind, because it's us women that give them the opportunities to treat us like shit anyway.
How many women still have any pride left? Fortunately for me, I got my wife in the days of the good, old-fashioned period.
Wait a minute! Aren't men the cause of all the problem? Who wants a woman to be sexy, baring her stuff to them and all that? Who want a woman to show her love by giving out sex? Oh so, the same motherF%#@ man will turn back around to suddenly want an angel for wife? You know what...I'll zip it for now.
How can a woman start going on dates with a man and begins to flash a major portion of her breasts (in the name of a damn cleavage) at every turn and occasion—and expects him to take her serious? But then, most women think we (men) think as they do....like we are dumb as they are. smh!
Women are their own worst enemies! Each time my husband says this, I feel like kicking him between the legs BUT I know he is right. It took me a while to figure out that men are completely different in the way they think, compared to us women.
As much as you (the blogger) appears to hit on a a bit of raw nerve with this piece, I really can't help agreeing with you. You called a spade a spade. These days, young women can't wait to rely on their hearts whenever they meet a man. But the men are busy using their brains. And one can't blame them.
I don't care about the excuses you give here for your fellow men, all I know is that you men are a fr@#% lot! When a woman is flashing her titties and all that, they will cheer her on as they have their fun. But after getting what they want, they will now use those things against her.
Seriously! It’s funny how men (including this blogger) blame us women for what they (the men) encouraged us to do in pleasing them, only to turn around and use those same things against us! So, after having his fill, a man will now reel out some frigging list of qualities he wants to see in a future wife-----and those qualities are contrary to what he has been enjoying from his current woman? This is so unfair!
I’ve always said it and will always say it, that it is VERY important for every spinster to know that men think very much differently from women. I learned that from my husband from the moment we met till the day he proposed and up till this moment. Men don't mind enjoying whatever a woman does to impress him.....even when he knows very well that those things will never qualify the woman to be his wifey. Men!
The other day, a woman was blaming Beyonce and other celebrities for exposing their bodies in the name of fame when they knew teen girls are looking up to them. But hello, if Beyonce was smart to wait till she got married before flashing off her boom-boom to the whole world, why can't other women think smart like her?
These days, a woman goes on a first date with a guy and proceeds to bare her body. She thinks the more she does this and other dumb stuff, the more she will be seen to be pretty and qualified to be permanent in his life. Jesus, we men don't look at it that way. When will women ever learn? So sad!
Awesome! In retrospect, I remember how my wife constantly made me have wet dreams way back then when we first met. Now, I tease her mercilessly about how she used to look like an Egyptian mummy each time we went out in those days. I guess women were smarter in then. But ask the present-day women, they think they know it all.
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