Showing posts with label Self-respect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self-respect. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 27, 2015

When it Comes to Marriage, Every Man is Conservative.

In those days, a woman would go to any length to cover up those sensitive parts of her body that men considered to be the basis of a woman’s physical pride. Women recognized this same physical pride as the bedrock of their emotional state of well-being.Blog_periods

Back in the day, a woman would take extra precautions to keep a man guessing about her body. It was common for a man to keep dreaming excitedly of the day when he would finally have the privilege to see that body.

These days however, it’s a different “ballgame”. Now, a typical woman will go to any length to expose the most intimate parts of her body, leaving nothing to imagination. From a very first date, she will provide a man with an eyeful of erotic sights to last him a lifetime. On a platter of gold, the man’s eyes are fed with a constant flash of her half-exposed breasts (cleavage) and the occasional exposure of her underpants (sex appeal). Unlike the past therefore, most men don’t have to “salivate” or have their imagination running riot anymore. Now, the only obstacle standing between a man and sex after one or two dates is just the distance between the location of the date and the nearest bedroom. Yet, it’s amazing, if not baffling to hear a lot of women lament over “the shortage of good men” and why marriage eludes them. Don’t they ever reason within themselves to realize that when it comes to marriage, every man is conservative in nature?

Thursday, May 7, 2015

Narcissism: Between Kim Kardashian and Beyoncé.

According to Wikipedia, to be narcissistic is to have an excessive or erotic interest in oneself and one's physical appearance. Narcissistic individuals are vain, self-loving, self-admiring, self-absorbed, self-obsessed, conceited, self-centered, self-regarding and egotistic.Blog_pics

Narcissism is a social disease that afflicts the rich and the famous. This disease is regularly sustained by the media which routinely feed on the gullibility of the famous. At the height of her “social sickness”, Britney Spears was notorious for her desperation for the limelight. And when it appeared that some other fellow narcissistic celebrities were stealing the shows, Spears resorted to the absurd. She shaved her head and, promptly, the young woman was back on top of the news. But in spite of all that nonsense, the time came for the media to get their hands on a fresh set of suckers.

Right now, the most notorious in narcissism among the celebrities are Kim Kardashian and Beyoncé Giselle Knowles-Carter a.k.a. Beyonce. Amidst a very tight competition, these two women will go to any length to display their obsession for public attention. From marrying some “unusual” men to giving their kids names that are most ludicrous and wearing outfits that make them look as good as stark naked, just anything will do in feeding their insatiable lust for public attention. And this was evident at the last Met gala where both Kim Kardashian and Beyoncé wore outfits that left nothing to imagination.

In the above picture, the gross hypocrisy of the American media was glaring. One picture that shows celebrities in the erotic movies genre is captioned as “Porn stars at the 2014 AVN porn Awards”. But the other picture showing Beyoncé and Kim Kardashian is captioned as “Influential people at the Met gala.” Objectively though, the “porn stars” dressed like choir girls when compared to the so-called influential women who looked as good as cheap whores.

 

 

 

Friday, August 29, 2014

Taking Responsibility for our Image.

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Whether we like it or not, certain people in our neighborhoods, at our jobs, among our friends and even within our families, will insist on seeing the worst in us. But it is our individual duty to take responsibility for our image, do right by others and project positive image to make a majority of people see the best in us.

There is a natural mechanism in every individual that sieves the positive character in our nature from the bad. Therefore, no matter the extent by which other people try to dent our image either out of ignorance or by sheer mischief, if the positive character in our nature is greater, it will always outshine whatever smear campaign is launched against us.

 

 

Monday, August 25, 2014

The Drama of Kevin Hart & Torrei Hart.

The news broke the other day that Kevin Hart proposed to his girlfriend, Eniko Parrish. Now, there was no big deal in that. Every now and then, celebrities propose to their girlfriends. In this case however, it was a whole "different kettle of fish”.

Obviously, there is no love lost between Kevin Hart and his ex-wife, Torrei Hart. But it appears the two will go to any extent to demonstrate their hatred for each other.

Round One: On the day Torrei’s tv reality show, “Atlanta Exes” had its premier, the whole world got to know how Kevin cheated on her. And what did Kevin do to “retaliate”? He chose that same day to propose marriage to his girlfriend, Eniko Parrish and then had it posted on instagram.

Now, what manner of marriage proposal was that? A proposal made by a man merely to spite his ex-wife!

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Round Two: Torrei was reported to have taken her crew to a strip club after her show aired. And what did Kevin do “mess up” that outing? He decided to go show-off his “freshly-minted” fiancée at the same strip club.

This time, was Kevin in that strip club coincidentally to show pride in his future wife or merely to use the poor woman (all over again) to spite his ex-wife?

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While in the strip club, Kevin was said to have splashed about $40,000 all over the place…merely to make a “statement”…to spite his ex-wife!

As Torrei and her entourage gaped irritably at the melodrama of her ex-husband, she was said to have reacted that with a new man in her arms, she did not need to waste a dime in showing off.

And so, here is the bottom line: Kevin Hart is using his “fiancée” to spite his ex-wife and Torrei is using her “new” man to spite her ex-husband. What a bunch of stupid, childish fools they all are!

 

Monday, August 11, 2014

The Scourge of Obesity Among Young People.

Early in the morning last Saturday, I was inside a Shoprite store when I saw a woman jump onto one of the store’s scooters. I thought she was merely sitting on it while waiting for someone. But she soon drove it into an aisle to look at the arrays of items. I then wondered why such a young woman would need a scooter to shop. I however noted that she was grossly obese.

I was also at the Christiana Mall (Delaware) the other week and observed the many young men and women, all in their early twenties, as they practically struggled to walk. In my opinion, these young people are human “time-bombs” who pose serious health dangers to themselves. If anything at all, they risk sudden heart failures on daily basis.

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The nagging question on my mind at that point was why there were (and still are) so many fat young people all over the place? The answers, though, could not be far-fetched. It does not take a rocket scientist to figure out the sources of the problems and the possible solutions to the issue of obesity among the young folks.

On the one hand are the too many young people who are ignoring the importance of a healthy lifestyle. They eat like gluttons with reckless abandon. And their choices of “favorite” foods are usually the junks. For folks eating and drinking so recklessly, aren’t they supposed to do some daily work-outs? The answer is no! Many of them actually hate any form of physical exercise like the plague.

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On the other hand, there are those among them who restrict themselves to some expensive so-called organic foods, bottled water and all kinds of cute, exotic stuff BUT after consuming all those expensive foods and drinks, what do they do?

• They drive cars with automatic transmissions without breaking a sweat.

• They use remote devices to control their televisions in a bid to avoid getting up once-in-awhile.

• They go to stores and, instead of walking along the aisles to do some physical exercise they lazily get on motor scooters to ride around in pleasure.

• At work or when visiting public places, they go everywhere by elevators.

• And back home, they sit opposite televisions for hours, turning themselves into “couch potatoes”.

And so, these young people pile up fats. Their stomachs protrude as if they are six-month pregnant, they pants and grunts while trying to do the most minimal chores and turning their fat bodies into “comfortable homes” for diabetes, heart diseases and numerous other ailments. And, of course, they end up getting sick most of the time until, one day, when their body time-bombs will explode!

 

 

Friday, August 3, 2012

Self-respect Can Only be Earned.

Self-respect cannot be hunted. 
It cannot be purchased. 
It is never for sale.  
It cannot be fabricated out of public relations. 
It comes to us when we are alone, 
in quiet moments, 
in quiet places, 
when we suddenly realize that, 
knowing the good, 
we have done it; 
knowing the beautiful, 
we have served it; 
knowing the truth we have spoken it. 
~ Whitney Griswold.